the extraordinary women of rural india
i went to a bunch of villages near the town of mandya, about 120kms out of bangalore. these villages were only about 15-20km outside of mandya but they were so frightfully backward and lost to civilisation. it made me shudder at the thought of what villages that are far more remote are like. they didn't have paved roads; their homes could hardly be called homes; they have to rely on a very unreliable water tank or well for water; and they only get power for 5 hours a day! not only that, they have no idea of knowing when the 5-hour block will begin, and so if they are out working in the fields or mills, they will probably have missed their only chance to cook, listen to the radio, or watch their black-and-white televisions. most houses were small but looked spacious only because their residents were too poor to furnish them with anything. many houses had leaks in their roofs or big holes (see pic) which must wreak havoc when the monsoons arrive. most of the households had farm animals as their only assets- for some, the milk from these animals was their only livelihood and so their own lives were inextricably linked with those of their cows or goats. i have an image of a house that will stay with me forever. we met with someone in a house which comprised of just one room that was approximately 10feet by 20feet. of this, the woman had designated more than half the space for her lone cow! when asked why, she told me that her only source of income was milk from this one cow and the cow's death would hasten her own so she had to offer it the greatest care and comfort she could. it was so heart-wrenching to hear this, and to see her live in a room permeated by the putrid odor of cow and cow dung, and to see her sleep on the floor right next to her cow. to sum up her abysmal situation, while she slept on the rock hard floor, her cow was at least rolling comfortably in bales of hay. the room in question is in the picture- the cows area is everything behind the ledge till the door, while the woman sleeps where the women in the picture are sitting. i cannot imagine how they live like this.
despite their miserable environs, the women of rural india are quite extraordinary. they are not at all conservative, backward, or mindful of Purdah like i thought they would be. an elderly woman told my colleague not to marry young because her husband would ruin her life, and to never have an arranged marriage. i was quite stunned by this! they were all also very strong-willed and vocal- not one woman i spoke to shied away from responding, and i was frightfully impressed with their responses. not only that, i was astounded at their desire to learn- every single one of the 200 women i spoke to had a burning desire to learn about good health and nutrition. they wanted to be able to take care of themselves and their families, and they wanted their children to succeed in life. some of the groups i spoke to even volunteered women from amongst their midst to be community health workers for their villages! in every village center, at least 1 or 2 women had a bachelor's degree or were in pursuit of one. how wonderful is that? they were respectful and courteous, and very forward-thinking. when i explained a health insurance scheme to them, they were very receptive towards the idea (i thought they would be cautious and unyielding) and they asked very thoughtful and probing questions about the scheme that admittedly had me even going back to the drawing board to reconsider certain things. they offered elaborate opinions on government insurance schemes in which they were enrolled in, and they even made a great number of suggestions as to how we could make things work.
microfinance has truly given these women a voice. they are no longer suppressed by their husband and in-laws. they have a say in family matters and i could say that their role has even evolved to the extent that they are the leaders of their households. since microfinance is only extended to women, they make the final decision as to how the loans they receive will be used. kendra managers (loan officers) ensure that these women have a channel to voice any abuse by their husbands. with the money they have borrowed, the women have started their own businesses and generated a vital source of self-made money. unlike a husband who will gamble or drink away money, you can be assured that the money a woman makes will be used for the good of the household and for the education of the children. this was the core concept of microfinance when prof yunus started it some 30 years ago, and it is still valid. i cannot forget the hope visible on the faces of the women i met. at each village i went to, every single woman came up to me and told me that they had faith that i would do something for them, that i would offer them and their families a chance to lead healthier, better lives. these personal requests for help, i cannot forget nor ignore. i only have 2 weeks left but i am confident that, by the time i leave, i will have put in place a model concrete enough in theory. i have faith that grameen koota is committed enough to respond to the needs of their clients and will put this model in practise. how i wish i could have been around for that, to see the joy and satisfaction on the faces of those very women i set out trying to help.

